I Survived 2013 and That’s Enough

My awesome social media coordinator, Ralene Burke posted a status on the Realm Makers facebook page today, asking how life has changed for our fans over the past year, and like many posts there, I felt compelled to respond. I mentally worked my way through 2013, and came up with this list of what big events happened over the year.

I settled into a new position at work

OK, so I changed positions, technically, near the end of 2012, but 2013 was the first year that I had to go through the “busy season” for my new job. The busy season runs from about May to August, and during that time, I am responsible for obtaining and preparing about 6500 (no, really) jpgs of the covers for different pieces of choral, band, and orchestra music to populate our half dozen catalogs that go out before the beginning of the school year. I spent the first half of the year learning who’s who at about 50 different publishers I need to contact for these covers, and by some miracle, survived juggling all this artwork on my own. (There are other things, too, like making sure these things get to the company website, but I won’t bore you with the laundry list.)

Besides my day job…2013 brought us a home of our own

At the end of April, 2013, my husband and I closed on our first home. We’ve been married 15 years, but yes, this was the first time we were in a position to get out of the rental market, because A.) we live in a place where it’s plausible we’ll stay, and B.) we both have a predictable income. For many years, we chose to rent so that I could stay home with our children, but since my husband’s gift is in teaching, and he is in the place of ministry God would have him (teaching in a private, Christian school) I am helping with the household income now. In dream-world, I would be home full time doing creative things and having some tiny clue what in the world is going on with my kids’ school and homework, but for now, this is where God has us. Anyway, as for the house…

Our budget necessitated we get creative about buying, and we were ready when foreclosures were at a historic peak. Typically, foreclosed homes have problems, so you can’t get traditional financing on them. So we went into the process approved for what’s known as a 203K loan, which is basically a purchase and construction loan all rolled into a single closing. Mortgages and homebuying are complex enough. But holy moly was the 203K convoluted.

In the end, we got a solid little Cape Cod style home in a quiet neighborhood, with just enough yard to be manageable and to be able to tell the kids: Go outside! We gutted the entire upstairs and had to have all the plumbing throughout the house replaced, as well as ductwork installed. Oh, and we discovered we needed a new roof on the back dormer of the house because it was leeching water down the back wall and rotting it. And we needed all new windows. And appliances. And floors in the kitchen and bathrooms. (There’s more, but I’ll stop.) Oh, one other tiny detail: remember how I said we closed at the end of April? That meant we were renovating the house (while living in it) at the same time as my first busy season at my day job.

But wait, there’s more…remember that thing where I write stuff?

Also in the spring, I was in the process of the final edit for my third Windrider book, Valor’s Worth, with my
publisher, Diminished Media Group. Since I was also producing the cover for this, I was also building sacrifice chalices and daggers out of craft store supplies, drawing pages to ancient texts, having all this photographed, and compositing it for the final artwork. So I’m turning around corrections, begging friends to proof my finals, and approving final cover layout all at once. Right in the home stretch, we also had a few unprecedented formatting nightmares for the interior of the book. This all while in the busy season of my day job and renovating a house . . .

And not to forget . . .the crazy Idea That Wouldn’t Be Ignored

During this same first 8 months of 2013, I was also planning the first Realm Makers conference, being held in St. Louis at a venue I could only go on faith my good friend had scoped out and knew would be adequate to host 65 authors and 20 faculty and volunteers. I don’t know how many hours goes into planning a two day conference, but I know I’ve already sunk about 300 or so into the 2014 event. Yes, most of the work for the first Realm Makers happened in—you guessed it—May, June, and July.

So why am I writing all this? Not so much to toot my own horn as to explain why I came very close to a nervous breakdown over this year. Perhaps I’m leaving myself a horrifying chronicle of how not to schedule your life. I’ve been wondering why I have felt so emotionally fragile for the past few months. Um, I’m thinking maybe it’s fatigue? The good news is, for 2014, all I have ahead of me is finishing my sequel to Curse Bearer, planning the next Realm Makers (which will fall BEFORE busy season) and managing the day to day demands of family and work.

By comparison, that sounds like a breeze.

So what about you? What amazing things did you witness in your own life in 2013? What you hoping for in the coming year? I wish all of you a new year full of many blessings. Here’s to living and learning!


  1. Ooo . . . Becky said I'm awesome. Did y'all catch that? :P

    I had many very similar changes this year as well. We moved, I kicked off my editing business, had some major financial things go wrong, hubby had to go back to work. Craziness! But, I'm still whole, still sane(ish), and loving life. So excited to be a part of Realm Makers in 2014!

  2. That'll keep you busy..

    In 2013, I quit my "day job" (I'll spare you the details), started a master's program, started edits on a book under contract from the last week of 2012, submitted 4 more novels and 4 (now turning into about 8 or so) teacher resources to publishers and got contracts on them, wrote and got contracts for 3 stories, wrote a rough draft of a novel, and set up a collaboration with another writer.


    2014 will be interesting, too, I think.


Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

A Time for Change

The Windrider Saga has languished too long!!

Digital Doodle, Sunday June 25th